Just ordered the Connects2 cable (vhox001) from ebay. It was only 23£.
It is the same adapter that Pottsy ordered, excluding the cd-changer cable (extra from Honda) that the EX Civics have.
I asked about the Civic fitting on Connects2 forum, and they think it should work.
Well I will see if it works in January when I get my Civic
It was only 23£, if it won't work, so I am fine with it...