Unfortunately there's no standard spec levels that stay the same year on year. Instead Honda will introduce new features into spec levels as the years go by.
The facelift version has a refreshed appearance but also remember Honda also removed/degraded some minor things in 2015/2016, e.g. suede-effect seats were replaced with a more scratchy material, glove-box lining removed, no CD player, etc...
I have the 2014 SE Plus which has all you are looking for minus the "auto-dimming rear view mirror". This was available to me as an optional extra in the Driver Assistance Pack. The spec level above mine (SR) had this feature as standard in 2014. So for a 2014 model you'd have to get a SR spec model to guarantee all those things you want, or if you're lucky, find a SE Plus model with the optional Drivers pack (probably hard to find).
Here's the brochure I have stashed away for 2014:
Here's what looks like the 2013 brochure. Despite having 2012 in the URL the first page of the brochure states 2013:
From the 2013 brochure it seems a bit different...
- Rain sensor (ES, EX, EX GT)
- Automatic headlights (ES, EX, EX GT)
- DAB (optional on SE & ES, standard on EX, EX GT)
- bluetooth (optional on SE, standard on ES, EX and EX GT)
- auto-dimming rear view mirror (EX, EX GT)
So to get the things you listed, it looks like at least a 2013 EX or a 2014 SR, unless you get lucky and find one with the optional extra included on the lower spec.
Hope this helps...