Well I couldn't just sit around and wait for some brains here to help me, so I went out and pulled out the HU again, did it in 5 minutes alright but it took 10 minutes for my finger to stop bleeding
I decided to go back to my original home made €5 cable.
First thing I did was remove the "B" connector, it only has 2 pins connected in its present state. As I found out later these connections are for the steering wheel controls.
I decided to just connect pin 5 to 15 (supposed to enable the AUX option), turned on the radio, pressed the CD button twice and bob's your uncle, theres AUX on the display......SWEEET!!
So I pulled the cable I made apart, soldered it again (properly
) and plugged it directly into the back of the HU, I left the original connection off.
Put it all back together and temporarily routed the cable beside the gear stick (I'll go back in to connect the steering controls in a few days).
Plugged in my ipod and lovely sounds surrounded me
Here's a couple of pics!!!!!